Why did the unfaithful wives marriage seems more stronger than the faithful one?

Is`nt it unfair and really hard to understand why did the unfaithful or cheater wives marriage look stronger than wives who never cheated?


I know some wives who is unfaithful, cheated and still cheating to their husband but they are still together until now and seems like their marriage is perfect but me myself who never cheated my husband and been a very good wife for 14 years is struggling for my marriage?Why did the unfaithful wives marriage seems more stronger than the faithful one?
A woman who is cheating will try harder in her marrige so that she's not found out. She won't start arguments, and will accept pretty much anything that comes along. (If everything looks perfect, it's probably not.) However, a woman who has nothing to hide, and nothing to fear is a normal woman who will yell at her hubby when something's wrong, not accept things that shouldn't be accepted.. etc.Why did the unfaithful wives marriage seems more stronger than the faithful one?
All the world is a stage and the people merely players...You hit the nail right on the head in your question when you said ';cheater wives marriage LOOK sronger than wives who never cheated?'; It is all in the appearance my friend. Cheaters are wonderful actors, that is how they get away with it. They put up a facade that the marriage is perfect so that no one will ask questions, cause if some one starts asking questions, eventually they will find the answers. As far as your marriage. Everyones marriage struggles and has ups and downs. It is fun to reach peaks, but keep in mind that no one lives on the top of a mountian. All that would do is isolate and cut you off from the resources needed to survive. Enjoy the peaks and when you hit a valley, just determine that you will not stay there and set out to climb another peak.
I wouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly that everything is ok in marriages that include infidelity. Something is obviously wrong or they wouldn't be cheating. Some people are very good at putting on a game face.





Relationships and marriage are not easy. No two are the same. If you are having problems in your marriage, you need to find out what it is and work on fixing it.





I wish you the absolute best and hope that things work out for you.
It's just proof that we never really know what is going on in people's heads or behind closed doors. If their marriage was perfect, they wouldn't be boinking another person, lying and keeping secrets.
I have the same question as yours actually!


I just thought that probably her husband doesn't smell the coffee spill.


Always remember, what goes around, comes around...