Do you have a problem with sex before marriage?

I don't. Some people (Like Oprah and Steadman) live together for years and years and never get married. I don't really think there is much point in getting married if your not planning to have kids. As long as you really love this person, it doesn't matter if your married or not. It's about the love, am I right?Do you have a problem with sex before marriage?
I read a guy friend's blog on MySpace that said that he can't wait to get married so he can start having sex. He's a Protestant Christian so he's obviously abstaining until marriage. This might just be me, but isn't getting married just so you can have sex sorta wrong? You would want to get married because you want to spend the rest of your life with that person, right?


A person has sex before marriage, finds someone they really love, and decides to spend their life with that person and marries.


A person abstains from sex until marriage, denies their desires and urges, finds someone they really love, but only wants marriage just so they can finally have sex.


I rather be the first person.


Unless you get married at a really young age. Like 18 or something.Do you have a problem with sex before marriage?
Nope. I have a problem with sex before 18 though.. Its just a personal choice and a personal thing. I don't see why the words of a Religion should play the biggest roles in peoples life - like having sex. I don't see why a Religion has the right to tell you when and where and why you shouldnt have sex before marriage. It's like telling you when to eat!
yeah, i agree with the sex before responsibility!





and no, i do not ave a problem with sex before marrige. i would like to get married some day, but i dont think that it is like really bad if you have sex before marrige. i do, however believe it is bad if you have sex before responsibility. i think that weather you are using birthcontrol or w/e or not, you need to be mentally and physically ready to support a child if you are having sex.





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i think you're right. however, some people would disagree with you. i have no problem with people waiting until marriage, that's their choice. however, it doesn't totally make sense to me. marriage is a piece of paper. i could walk down to city hall right now with some boy and get married. i'm 16. does that make me ready for sex? no. however, my aunt has lived with her now common-law husband for ten years, without getting married. they are deeply, deeply in love. does that mean they shouldn't have sex? i'm with you, believe me. just trying to throw some new ideas out there and open minds.
marriage is a sign of commitment and perfect union between two people to last for a life time. God made marriage to vow that you will live your life with that person. and the ceremony of marriage clarifys that thats what you both want and shows other people.hey back off this person is commited. No I don't see anything wrong with sex before marriage..maybe i should tho. I regret waiting. Just thinking about how special and awesome it would be if I had waited for that night...if I had even waited for my first kiss right at the alter where i got married..how magical would that be?eh?


But anyway. i believe that if you really love someone you will go that extra step and be like hey i want to show our family and friends how much i love you and have a ceremony, stand infront of people we know adnd confess how much i love you and hey i'm going to buy you a wedding ring for both to wear and let every stranger, every person that walks by....i love someone with all my heart. and this band i'm wearing clarifys that...isn't that special...why not get married if you really love someone?
the only point on marriage is the insurance they share..and the joint bank account.





My mom and dad live together for 5 years and are fine without wanting to marry.


I don't plan on getting married or having kids but i do plan to live with my lover one day...no time soon but one can not be so sure of the future :)





sex b4 marriage is fine. whoes a virgin now days anyways...not alot and most will lose it b4 they turn 18





yess your right :D!
I see nothing wrong with sex before marriage, but I agree that it does have to be responsible. I do have a problem with someone having sex with a lot of people though. I don't think sex is something that people should just throw around.
I don't see anything wrong with it. It's your body and you can do what ever you want with it. However I do think you should wait until you are old enough and mature enough to deal with the consequences.
No, I don't.





But I do believe you should only have sex if you are in a serious, loving trusting and responsible relationship.
I don't =]





As long as you are mature enough, emotionally and physically, to handle any consequences that may arise, I see no problem with it.





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No, I actually have a problem with abstinence. I am, of course, not against it, I just can't imagine marrying someone I didn't know sexually.
I agree, but even if you are planning on having kids marriage is not a necessity. My parents never got married, they have four children and are fantastic parents.
I don't.


But I do have a problem with sex before responsibility.
I think it is fine to have sex before marriage provided you are smart about it and take the necessary precautions.
I dont but if pregnancy happens from it, responsibilities needs to be making.
nope. Sex is suppose to be about love, as long there is love and condom it is fine with me :)
no, I did not.Only problem i couldn't enjoy it so much because I was afraid that his parents would come back :0
so unless you want to have kids with someone you shouldn't get married..?
i don't, my boyfriends mum did she said its techincally rape because im only fifteen and im not old enough to say yes:s





like you said its all about the love!!:)
nope!


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Noope.
Yes I do. it is wrong and immoral.
that's exactly how i look at it.