How do you know when a marriage is truly over?

My husband and I seperated about a month ago. At first, things were better/really kind of good because we were no longer arguing, we were having fun together and he was really into me and called me all the time (within 1-2 weeks after I left) but now he has gone back to not calling or wanting to be around me so much. I am VERY confused. I love him but I don't want to go back home and be miserable so I refuse to call him. Any suggestions???How do you know when a marriage is truly over?
Get on with your life and stop waiting for him to call........you can only be responsible for yourself and the love you give, you can't force someone to love you or continue to love you and by getting on with your life it might just make him think twice about what he really wants, if that is you two getting back together then make him work for it, so you will then feel more secure...........if you really love someone, let them go, he will be back if its meant to be.How do you know when a marriage is truly over?
I was separated from my wife for 6 months and we both thought divorce was only a text away. (no calls for a while)





Hope springs eternal.





Sometimes we take the short, fast and easy route. Deep reflection can cause a person to take stock in their values and what is important to them. Arguing is simply a form of communicating without listening or judging a statement from a personal perspective.





Our arguments stopped all together after we talked about our feelings rather than how the other person ';made'; me feel. When a person can let go of the issue and reflect, there is a chance to dig deep and see the core problem (It isn't the arguing!)





See resources. Talk to a counselor. Get exercise. Eat right. Take care of yourself first and foremost.
Counseling is the answer to the question. You and your husband need to go to counseling and that will determine the state of your marriage.
the only thing I can tell u if u are not happy being home with him, than u need to just file for divorce , if u Truly loved him u would call him and try to work this out, u would want to go back home.
Mind always searches what is unavailable or lost. Think of what you have now or redeemed. Enough is enough. Try someone. New man. New relationship. New thrills. etc.
Wow. Sorry to hear that. I would have to say you should visit a counselor. Would he be interested in fixing the issues?
I havent read the paragraph... but to answer the question id say when youve signed to divorce... seems fairly obvious to me
I think you should try counseling. Then you'll have a better idea if it is truly over.
counseling would help
party time.
too much alone time he met somebody else
It sounds as if e as got used to not avin u around ??? an is gettin on wiv life an so should u