Have you ever had a threesome in your marriage and not had complications?

First, I am not considering it. Second, I would like to know if there are people that are married (sorry daters and engaged folks, you aren't invited) people that have or do have threesomes that don't have complications. Thanks in advance!Have you ever had a threesome in your marriage and not had complications?
That will NEVER happen in my marriageHave you ever had a threesome in your marriage and not had complications?
We've had plenty of threesomes and moresomes over the years and it has never effected our marriage in a negative manner. We had a really good marriage when we started swinging and it just got better afterward because of the way it promoted honesty and communication between us. We thought we communicated well before, and I'll tell you we had no idea how much better it would get. Imagine, you can be honest with your spouse, without fear of them becoming hurt and angry, about the fact that someone else besides them turns you on sexually. Then imagine how easy it is to discuss other things in your relationship like money, etc.





But that's not by any means saying it will work for everyone. asically, when done between the right people for the right reasons, sexually open relationships will bring a couple closer together. When done between the wrong people and/or for the wrong reasons, it will tear them apart. What's the difference?





First, you have to be able to separate love and sex and realize that just because someone turns you on sexually that you are not in love with them. Generally people fall into one of two categories when it comes to sex: 1) those that feel sex is an expression of love, and 2) those that feel sex is a fun activity and don't have to add additional meaning to it. Those in the first group could never open-up their relationship sexually and will never understand how those in the second group can.





Also, sexually open relationships have to be on completely level ground, with neither partner having control over the other. It also has to be done for the right reason, which is to help your partner fulfill their sexual fantasies WHILE you get to fulfill your own. In short, it is BOTH of your fantasy, not just one of yours and the other is going along with it to make them happy.





Additionally, you have to be secure in yourself and your worth to your spouse. Jealousy is at it's root neurotic insecurity. It's the fear that you do not have value to your partner and that they may prefer someone else over you. Basically, jealousy is the fear that you aren't good enough and your just lucky your partner is with you and you fear that someone could take them away at any moment. Those that have successful open relationships know that they are ';it'; for their partner and everything else is just icing on the cake.





In short, swinging won't fix a bad or dying relationship, but it certainly won't hurt a good one. As a friend once observed after going to a couple swingers parties with my wife and I: ';Swinging is like the frosting on the wedding cake. But if all the ingredients aren't in the cake to start with to make it solid, all the frosting in the world won't keep it from crumbling.';
if you want to set yourself up for heartache fine, go ahead, invite a stranger into your marriage. something thats suppose to be private and special between you and your spouse. its not an invitation to a sex party. your spouse should have been enough alone when you tied the knot.





take a look at this question and see how her threesome turned out.





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I think it is rare indeed my friend, but i doubt people will admit that it has caused problems so that they can stay in denial and try to prove to all of us that it is ';ok'; in a marriage while also convincing themselves of that...LOL
We have been married for nearly 20 years and have had our share of threesomes. All of them have been without issue due to the fact they were one-off situations.
no complications
NO





ASK MRS TIGGIWINKLE - SHE'S HAD MORE!!
Never have , never will
yes a few times, worked out fine, but its been a few years