Why are threesomes viewed as being harmful to a marriage if the wife AND husband want to enjoy another woman?

Isn't it serving the same purpose (spicing things up, change %26amp; variety) as toys, props and role playing?Why are threesomes viewed as being harmful to a marriage if the wife AND husband want to enjoy another woman?
Because in general most people cannot deal with the 3rd person in the marriage. Husband may wonder if wife will ';turn'; gay and run off with woman and woman may wonder if husband will leave her for the other gal


etc





all comes down to most people don't have the emotional maturity to deal with such an advanced and complex social equation as introducing a 3rd member to what people are taught should be a monogamous relationship





but if it works for you then fine by me and if it doesn't then fine by meWhy are threesomes viewed as being harmful to a marriage if the wife AND husband want to enjoy another woman?
It depends on the couple. Some people see it as a threat to their marriage and thus should NOT participate in threesomes, etc. Others are more free in their sexuality and can separate love from sex and are able to enjoy such pleasures responsibly and maturely.





Being of the latter, I say it's a wonderful way to explore your sexuality if the couple in question is up to the challenge. It takes a strong and secure couple who can communicate openly and honestly and have 100% trust in each other to be able to pull it off. Plus they have to be into the kink lol.
They are viewed as harmful because they go against the prejudices taught in modern religion and societal norms about marriage. When it comes down to it only you and your partner can decide if it is harmful. If you trust each other and are firmly committed to one another then it should be fine.
Well... I don't know your views on the sanctity of marriage. And trust me, I am not judging!!! I answer with experience. It might not harm your relationship and it probably WILL spice things up if you are both for it. But as far as being ';VIEWED'; it's because it is a marriage... a commitment for the rest of your life to each other and no other. Once again, I'm not judging just answering why its ';viewed'; to be harmful
It's viewed as harmful because most married couples value the fact that you belong only to one another. Once that line is breached, there is a lack of trust and the relationship suffers and often fails.





they are viewed as harmful because most coules die on the vine
its really just a matter of 'be careful what you wish for because you may get it';.. it may sound all fine and dandy and some people handle it just fine but all it takes is one lingering glance to bring jealousies ugly head around. once you've thrown mistrust in your relationship or doubt its almost impossible to fix and it only is successful with a small percentage of relationships..
I honestly think the response from Tiffany is a good one.





For us males it is great with threesomes. Two beautiful ladies... (I am in heaven)...





And most likely it is a male behind these requests.





So if the male can accept threesomes with two males and one lady it is nothing to say about two ladies and one male... But otherwise... ok. for us males it is great... - We will definitely win most on it!
You are adding another person into the equation, with their feelings, actions, reactions and emotions. Last time I checked, toys and props didn't have feelings. Triangles have three sides!
You do what ever the heck you want to do in your bedroom.


What ever blows your hair back.


In case you are looking for traders, not interested.
Why does it have to be with another woman? I'd only have a threesome with another man, but not with another woman.
Because so many of the conservative, closeminded women (especially) on Y!A can't imagine doing anything like it, so it must be evil.
Generally one person becomes attached to the 3rd party and that's when the trouble begins...





I think you should do whatever floats your boat...
It's not harmful. That is the best arrangement in any marriage.
if it's something you both want and feel that your relationship will be fine afterward, then there is no problem=enjoy!
To each his /her own... if you as a couple are in agreement, then go for it and I hope it is as hot as it sounds.
Go have one and let me know how it turns out.
because its a) cheating b) being unfaithful to your vows c) if the female was gay she should never have gotten married d) if the man wanted to cheat he should have never gotten married e) its unsafe f) can get a STD g) it makes sex with each other seem less desireable h) its the highway to divorce i) your children (if any) dont need sl*ts for parents. j) word eventually gets around k) you get the well i cheated with you so i can cheat with out you l) where is the love between you two k) shall i go on???? i prob can make it thru the alphabet. if u want to chea go get divorced .