Thursday, May 13, 2010

My pregnant wife and i are having a major argument that is threatening to ruin the marriage, so who's right?

My wife thinks a postage stamp should go on the envelope before you seal the envelope, and i think it should go on after you seal the envelope. Who's right?My pregnant wife and i are having a major argument that is threatening to ruin the marriage, so who's right?
You are both wrong. Use email.My pregnant wife and i are having a major argument that is threatening to ruin the marriage, so who's right?
I think each of you can decide for yourself and only for yourself when the postage stamp goes on the envelope. Were you to not think this a good solution, then I think you may want to consider divorcing her so you can pay child (after the child is born) and spousal support and she and you can put the stamp on any envelope whenever you want and not argue about it any more. This is a drastic solution but will get you the satisfaction of allowing yourself to put the stamp on an envelope whenever you want as long as it is in the upper right hand corner of the envelope. The best solution is to allow whomever is putting the stamp on the envelope to put it on whenever one wants to put it. This is called negotiation and reaching a compromise. It works, and I suggest you compromise with her on this and not make a big deal out of it. Were this to be a threat and create the possibility that your marriage may be ruined because of it, I tend to think that there may be other problems with your marriage that are more important than this problem and those problems need to be looked at in greater detail, as there doesn't need to be a major argument over such a petty thing as when does a postage stamp go on an envelope. Get real, and get your marriage back on track.
What a significant waste of stamps if you put them on and then mess up sealing the envelope.





With the new self adhesive stamps you cannot get them back off and reuse them like the old ones.





I do not think that I could remain married to a person who is so wastefully intractable about this issue.





Perhaps it is time to leave before the baby comes and you get to bond.





It will make it easier that way.
Really, a stamp is threatening to ruin the marriage! Maker her happy on this one, you've got diaper changing and 3am feedings to worry about!
There's no right or wrong in this situation. It doesn't matter when you put the stamp on it as long as it's on there before you put it in the mailbox.
it does not matter ? ! - and if you really feel that something so not important can ruin your marriage


you are both looking for an easy way out
You are. But she will never be convinced of it. Pregnant woman are a nightmare.
You are. Everyone knows it should go on after it is sealed.
Just concede to her.

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