Have you had a physical altercation in your marriage?

Have any of you had an argument become physical in your marriage? Did you marriage survive? Did one or both of you deny what happened?Have you had a physical altercation in your marriage?
Denial is a classic abuser technique. They HAVE to deny that it happened or find a way to blame you, otherwise they'd have to admit guilt. Denial is also very typical victim behavior - they minimize how bad the physical abuse is. They also take blame, telling themselves that if they'd only not said or done this or that, their spouse wouldn't have become abusive.





It's all nonsense. Abuse is never acceptable and it's always dangerous. This kind of behavior doesn't go away; it escalates.Have you had a physical altercation in your marriage?
yes- i have three words- GET OUT NOW.


i promise it will only get worse.
Several.


Some close calls on survival, nevermind the marriage.


We've never talked about it in any great detail.


I knew what I was getting into.





We both have changed.
Yeah we have one every day; she physically avoids sex and so I get physically drunk and sit in front of the computer and physically look at porn.
I would not tolerate that. period
Simple: I divorced my abuser. Now 11 years abuse free!