Is it good to experiment sex before marriage ?

Many of my friends advise me to have sex atleast once before marriage so that when time comes to do real show, you won't fail.


Atleast you know how to works...so you can bring more pleasure


Any recommendations? I am getting married in Feb... My fiancee is in India but I can give a try locally.Is it good to experiment sex before marriage ?
My Dear friend,.u must be a Indian,correct,.because most of the Indians will be virgin till they marry,.,see think about your girl she will be virgin and waiting for u,.if she goes to someone else for experience before marriage what u will think,.,same she will think and feel if she comes to know about what u r thinking to do now,.don't hurt u r girl,.friend will make u pure and impure too at the same time,..see u don't need to be so experienced to handle a virgin girl who also doesn't knew anything about it in real,.if u wish to know more about sex buy some books like kama-sutra,.or watch lots of educational porn videos till feb,.don't get u r self spoiled,.u can hide everything from u r loved once,.but u cant hide truth from God,.if u don't believe god,.believe in love.,.believe in u r family how they trust u,.how she trust u,.don't break u r truly appearance,.,see if u r lover is a experienced and matured girl who slept with many then there is a logic u may think about experience,.she trust u,.she is virgin,.,waiting for u,.,see her heart,..cut the friend who suggested u this,..he is anti - Christ,..call her everyday,.have lots of fun with her,.be a good person,..and be loyal to her till u die,.don't worry there is nothing than love in bed which a women wants,.even if u r innocent who doesn't know what is sex,..even who doesn't know the meaning of sex,..girls doesn't want there partners to be experienced,.all they love is pure love,..and affection,,.if u win that,..she will be so patient and allow u to experiment her body so u can learn lots of practicals and become a expert within month,.she will do what ever u ask coz,she is u r wife,.love her,.





by the way,.best wishes for u r life,.!!Is it good to experiment sex before marriage ?
Only foolish people talk so. Your friends are very bad %26amp; irresponsible people who so advise you. It is illegal %26amp; immoral to do so. If you study about that well, you will never fail. Good friends teach properly in civilised manner to their friends who are going to get married instead of badly advising. If you do so, after wedding ceremony, when you see your wife at first night, the real love, affection, attraction, interest, excitement %26amp; craze for that while doing that with your wife will be missing %26amp; the real deep intimacy with her will NOT be existing. You will not be a happy %26amp; deep loving partner afterwards too. Psychological %26amp; emotional effect on her will be very bad. While sleeping with you at mid night, some times on some day, you will talk about that experience %26amp; she will listen %26amp; know that. Everyone talks of one's past while sleeping on which has has no control at all. This is God made thing. You cannot prevent. Imagine, if it happens to you, your wife comes to know of that %26amp; how she is very much shattered after that. Never commit any such mistake at all.


Read a good sex manual available in the market. Search on Google about ';Sex techniques'; %26amp; read some of them well.
Life is an experiment ... so is art of sex also.... but isnt that a good feeling that u both experiment things together once u r married... these things will strengthen your relationship and u both will come to know each other as a person and waht u want in bed..... and marriage is not all about sex. its about how u feel for the relation and the person u are with and once that is smooth everythng is smooth.


Sex is an art and art is learnt everyday u can learn it and can keep learning till the time u die.


n ppl who give this crap that b4 marriage u shud have sex so when u get married u can satisfy her/him is total BS.


so dont bother bot experimenting it with som1 b4 marriage and if u r experimenting it with som1, tell her also to do the same. so that u both can compare each other while the first time u r doing it together. and if u blv in criticsm go ahead but dont 4get to tell her the samething
You have waited this long... what is the rush? Your fiance loves you for who you are and you should not have to prove yourself in bed to keep your life partner. Sex is a learning experience. No one is a pro the first time and it is so much more special and meaningful to be able to say that that person is the only one that you have given yourself to. You will have no guilt or regrets. I think that you would be happier if you wait for marriage. And, just as an extra note, you will have no basis of comparison if your partner is terrible in bed! But seriously, relationships are about communication and figuring out what works for both of you. Just wait! You won't be sorry!
Noooo! if you are a virgin and your engaged don't find a guy for a quickie just because you think you need some experience. for one that is cheating. and two you being a virgin means that if you wait for your man and marriage that you will be a perfect fit for him because he will be the only man who has had you. and if you want tips on how to make your first time better and to please him go to a novelty store and buy a book on the kama sutra read it and use your new knowledge to blow his mind.
Answer is simple. BIG NO


because you will not like your would be wife to have sex with any man.


Lady not only needs sex but she needs love, affaction, security and recognition. She needs good fore play to have real mood. Casual sex with any lady will not be satisfying for you rather it will be disgusting for you as sex needs cool calm mind and good environment with committed partner.
theoretical knowledge is enough to work and start life with ur partner,some times many experience persons fail on first night be cos reasons r more on diff rent condition,so Tnve practical sex so that u will be safe from excessess %26amp; keep ur partner also safe,happy life leas only on understanding of u %26amp; ur partner not sex don't ,go in hurry try %26amp; see my opinion u will b happy in ur life.
It is not fair on your part to take some advise on such important issue which may a reason to feel guilty when you will heart that your fiance has the same experience.......


Yes if you feel that you require some experience on such issue


You go ahead and share it with others as well as your . . . . .
Well you can but I don't think you should consider this as a show. Its not a timebound activity. With continual practise after marriage, you anyway know how it works.





You may consult a gynaecologist and get some does and don'ts or I can help you if you so wish.
It bothered my husband that I had slept with someone else before our relationship.





Everyone is an individual. What works for one person might not work the another. So even if you do gain some experience now, who says that it will work for your husband in the bedroom.





He might be expecting you to be a shy virgin. Men get off on the whole Virginity thing. It's important.
I used to think so, but now I don't really know.





I think it is a good idea to learn what you like and get some 'practice' before you settle down with the same person for the rest of your life (ideally). However, I had experience before my husband, knew what good sex was, and then was stuck with a man who was awful in bed.





It could go either way. Do whatever feels right for you!
Sex before marriage is bad, bad, bad!! It's better fail that do it before you marriage. Okay? It will be more, um, let say wonderful, if you do it first time with your partner, after marriage. Congratulations on your marriage.
No u shudnt cheat ur wife..u know the relation bonds up slowly as and when u explore each otehr for the first time...if u give it a try locally u will not be that much interested in S## for the first time with ur wife...what will u do if somehow ur wife gets to know it from u only...just imagine the loss
im not muslim. but if you have a close relationship with someone, then why not ? sex is too taboo in some religions. its a perfectly natural thing to happen, and its not dirty nor sinful if you have genuine feelings for the person you are sleeping with.
No. do not do it


First, that would be cheating since you are already engaged and it is wrong


Two, it is an awesome thing to have only had this experience with the person you marry, it is a bond that cannot be broken
My advice: No, don't cheat just to get some sexual experience. However, read some books about it. You mention your fiance is in India, surely you have heard of the Kama Sutra.
Well, yes its good to experiment before marriage, so that you know you are compatible in bed before you commit, but jesus, don't cheat on your fiancee!!
Yes, you may test her before marriage. I think before taking her responsibility you should know that whether you are able to give her satisfaction or not.
Do reading of greate people regarding marriage and how to sattisfy your partenar experiment may spoil your life
Rather not. It does depend on your values though. Definitely not on a local although i think you're joking. Your first time will be amazing because it'll be with your life partner, the last thing you will be thinking about is technique
You will be spoiling a great Honeymoon ahead,


not only for your own self but also for your fiancee.
hell yeah as long as the person u are experimenting it with is your partner and not some other hussy.





dont cheat.





answer mine please:


http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
So you will cheat on your fiance just to have some experience????!!!!!





Either wait until you are married or have sex with Fiance when you see him.
NO! Wait til you get married. It's only 2 months away! Don't cheat. That's not right.
ok for me youll have to wait. see if she says yes first you dont want to surprise her with that. it will just be wierd for her
yes ! no experiment. do it for your enjoyment.
Are you a spinner who is used to use the used ball ?
Yes ..have the dish..
i don't think you should go for experimentation.
ya sure
Sex and marriage are 2 different items.