Isn't it unrealistic to vow that you will always love someone and always be there for them?I have a question about marriage vows and the idea of marriage?
If you are getting married just for the sake of having a wedding and party and getting gifts; yes. If you actually love this person and want to be with them for the rest of your life, then it's absolutely realistic.I have a question about marriage vows and the idea of marriage?
If you're in love and want to marry that person, then vowing to always love and be there for them isn't unrealistic. Marriages have up and down periods, maybe you won't love the person *as much* as you did when you first met them sometimes, but you still love them. You may be frustrated, angry, etc, with them, but you would still love them and be there for them.
If you are fickle and uncommitted I suppose it is.If you truly love someone then no. There are time when you may not like them but if you truly love a person it doesn' t just go away. Early within marriage it is more passion and sex appeal than love. True love comes through weathering the storms of life with someone and knowing they are there when needed reguardless.
No. Some people manage to stay together and stay in love through the hard times. There's a couple at my church who have been married for over 40 years, and my minister and his wife just renewed their vows after 22 years of marriage. Marriage is hard work, but if you love the person the hard work is worth it.
It isn't if you're with your soul mate.
No!
Nope!!
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