Sunday, January 17, 2010

How would you get used to the people you married in an arranged marriage?

Like when you have an arranged marriage, how would become attracted to each other?? how would you start it off? and how would you get used to each otherHow would you get used to the people you married in an arranged marriage?
I think it might be like when u start a new school years, with lots of new people, or u move to another place..





You DO get used to the situation and used to eachother.





But in a Marriage with family, think of it that way, and just ask Allah swt to help you adjust.





You'll be okay.How would you get used to the people you married in an arranged marriage?
If its traditional arranged marriages, most parents put a lot of thought and effort into who their child is going to be with. It's not all about dowry's and trading people off. Not all relationships work, no, but a lot of them actually fair out well. Nowadays people meet together to test their compatibility. There are ridiculously few cases where arranged marriages mean only meeting on the day of the wedding now.
suppose youd have to get to know each other and knowing that youre living with each oother for the rest of your life, so you may as well get to know each other. getting on with them wold be better for both.


they would need space from everyne else though, otherwse they wouldnt be able to properly ';talk'; till they get their own place
Why is this posted in Passover? WHAT does it have to do with the Exodus story and celebration of it? Or with Judaism AT ALL?





And, you just did...it was the way things were done, and you accepted what your parents DID in terms of making sure that you had the best life possible.

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