What would you do if your friends husband is coming to you for marriage advice? Do you think it's weird?

My friends husband keeps asking me for marraige advice. And he told me not to tell her. What should I do? What would you do if your friends husband is coming to you for marriage advice? Do you think it's weird?
Well make sure you dont sleep with him, because that is most likely his goal in this. He's attracted to you and wants to plant the seed in your head that he is in a hollow shell of a marriage, which will hopefully justify you jumping in the sack with him.





I'd distance myself from that situation all together and tell him he should be talking to someone else about it.What would you do if your friends husband is coming to you for marriage advice? Do you think it's weird?
well you got 2 options find out what your friend wants and give him the info?


or tell her that he is asking you for advice.


can go 2 ways also she will be flattered he went for advice or she will be angry with him for asking you ,


the thing is this is a no win situation for you,


just tell him that you don't know or mention to her that he asked you and you felt uncomfy talking to him about this without her knowledge,


im sure if she a good friend then she will be ok with you


good luck
Umm...not necessarily. He probably thinks you know her better than anyone else, and since you know them both, he thinks you're already familiar with the situation.





However, he might also be angling for sympathy by telling you ';his'; side, and might be trying to turn you against her. And, as some folks have already mentioned, he might be setting up one of those ';she doesn't understand me but you do'; things.





Just tell him you're uncomfortable being put in the middle and then stay out of it.
Stop!!! Whos more important your friend or her husband! Dam your suppose to be her friend not his, when she finds out whats going on and she will just give it time, you won't have a friend anymore! They both won't be talking to you!! How can you keep a secret from your friend that involves her!!1
Tell him to talk to his wife....How do you think your friend will feel about you giving her husband marital advice....especially when he ask you not to say anything to her....There are marriage counselors that are trained to give marital advice....
TELL HIM THAT SHE IS YOUR FRIEND AND YOU DON'T FEEL RIGHT KEEPING ANYTHING FROM HER. IF HE RESPECTS HER AND YOU, THEN HE WILL STOP. TELL HIM HE NEEDS TO TALK TO HIS WIFE ABOUT HIS PROBLEMS, YOU AREN'T A COUNSELOR. HE HAS ALTERIOR MOTIVES AND IT'S UGLY!!!!
Yell him to post on this boardand also, to go for marriage counseling, that you will not be put in the middle.
Help all you can without betraying your friend.
Maybe he wants to talk to you because he feels you know her best. I wouldnt feel comfortable about having to keep it from her though.
Don't tell her. But quit giving him advice. He is creating a BAD situation for all concerned.