Women: What traits are most important to you when considering a man for marriage material?

The winning answer will list, in order of importance, at least a couple of the traits from the following list plus others that may be suggested;





Strong


Smart


Compassionate


Passionate


Sexually gifted


wealthy


Good with kids


Good with tools


Good at Sports


Party Animal


Good Cook


Cleans around house


Aggressive


Generous


Gregarious


Boisterous


Soft Spoken


Handy with his fists


AdventurousWomen: What traits are most important to you when considering a man for marriage material?
Honestly, I would never marry anyone for having any order of these. What matters is our chemistry - how great of a partner the guy is. If I get married, it would only be to my willing best friend. Marriage is about seeking a life partner, not a bunch of personality traits. But I'll order your traits anyways:





1. Confidence - He has to love himself in order for me to love him. If he's constantly insisting he's flawed, I will believe him. A guy shouldn't ever allow himself to look weak.


2. Aggressive - I LOVE a man who is aggressive and manly. The alpha male is my dream come true.


3. Passionate - I want a guy to love me and show it physically and emotionally.


4. Smart - I can't stand stupid guys. Or guys who insist that they're the smartest guy ever, that's aggravating.


5. Sexually gifted - He's gotta be able to give it to me.


6. Compassionate - The way a guy treats other people is very important in indicating who he is.


7. Wealthy - I only say this because I want a guy who embodies success. I don't want a man to support me, but I want a guy who has his shiz together.


8. Gregarious - he has to love my friends and they have to love him.


9. Strong - Not a deciding factor, but I love a guy with strong hands and someone who's bigger than me, that makes me feel small and feminine.


10. Adventurous - I want someone to come with me to climb mountains. I need someone who wants to have fun.


11. Good with tools/sports - Manly. Me like.


12. Cleans around the house - the guys who have cleaned for me were the ones i haven't liked in the past, but it was because they cleaned to please me. If I found a guy who cleaned just because he was a tidy guy and wanted me to live like the princess I deserve to be, that would be unbelievable. Perhaps nonexistant. I like to dream.


13. Good cook - I would love to cook with him. But he would have to be able to admit that my food is better. Unless his was, but it's probably not.


14. Good with kids - Cute, but I don't know if i want kids yet. Probably not. Still nice to know that he can handle anyone.


15. Handy with his fists - I had a boyfriend who used to punch walls when he was mad. I thought it was so sexy that he got so hyped up and mad. But i don't want him starting the trouble.


16. Party Animal - Please, no. Party animals are normally players, and those that aren't wish they could be.Women: What traits are most important to you when considering a man for marriage material?
A man that can listen to their whining who should not talk back, but should talk back at the same time, who should have an opinion, but should listen to their opinion, but should not agree with them, but should agree with them. oh and a man who can put his pairs in the closet and lock it with a key..








Don't tell me that's sexist, I also make funny comments about us men.
Mature, good in bed, secure, employed, good in bed, considerate, honest, good in bed, funny, compassionate, good in bed...
RESPECTFUL is my number 1


trust and honesty


a sense of humor


smart


compassionate/passionate


intelligent





those are pretty important





these are important too but in no specific order


good cook


good with kids


attractive (to me)


just an all around good guy:)
my guess: money, passion for what he does for a living, power, loyalty to her, respect for her, passionate in his love for her
responsible, respectful, passionate, sexually gifted, generous
Compassion, love for life, respectful, hard working
I would have to say for myself Honesty, Romantic, Caring, Sincere


loves animals and the outdoors camping , fishing etc