My wife an i had an argument last night. I have been lying to her about money for quite some time now. The truth came out last night. This morning she tells me that she doesn't know if she can trust me. I would never cheat on her or anything like that. Is there anything i can do or say that will help me get my wife's trust back?How to regain trust in a marriage?
Trust is that which is not easily given but is quickly taken away. Trust is essential in any relationship, be it with a loved one or a friend. It is the very glue that holds that bond together. But it is a fragile thing. It takes only suspicion, not proof to take it all away.How to regain trust in a marriage?
put it all out on the table. dont hold one thing back. tell her you will go to therapy with her or take a lie detector test. tell her you have a problem and you know you do and you want help. then prove it by making the appt dont jsut tell her to do it, you make an appt with a therapist and a budgeting counselor. crown ministries offers budgeting counseling. you can look them up online.
trust is broken in seconds but takes years to earn back.
you can do this but youw ill need to be patient. Everyday tell her you are sorry for letting her down and being dishonest. keep telling her till she bleieves you. you cant tell her enough.
good luck you can do this.
Tell her everything and I hope, for your sake, that she is an understanding woman.
Trust is something earned.
So since money is an issue with you two - give her the reins over the finances, and you just get an allowance. \
She will see that your not sneeking around with money and you two can get back on track
make it up to her, be really sweet, do nice things for her, etc (because you messed up) but the only thing that is gonna make her trust you again is time. (and even though its about money it will affect the trust she has in you with other women!)
yeah right.... youve been watching to much t,v
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